Our Choices Create Our Reality
Good Day Friends!
Another Summer is ‘in the books!” I hope you all have made some wonderful memories with family and friends these last two months. I am gearing up for another Autumn helping out with the harvest. My schedule will be limited so please book your sessions soon. I am so grateful to have such amazing clients who are so understanding about me helping family during this very special time.
Our choices create our reality, this is what I would like to talk about in this month’s post. This statement has become a common statement that I repeat to myself, my grown children, family and now you. I had never really given it much thought prior to hearing this statement for the first time at one of the Access Consciousness classes I attended years ago. If I am being honest, I had this idea of life just kinda happening to you, that if I was a good person and followed the rules I would be blessed with a good life. This was all fine and dandy until something in life would go sideways and I wondered where I went wrong to deserve this trial. You know, the saying “why do bad things happen to good people” I replayed my life back trying to pin pointing where I screwed up, where I could have been a better person. Judging myself over and over and feeling like an even bigger pile of poo! The belief that God kept a score card and decided what blessings I earned messed with the belief that God doesn’t judge. If I wasn’t being judged why were there these trials showing up throughout my life?? Why, why why??
Learning that I am the creator of my life and that my choices created my reality ended the confusion and offered a sense of peace in my world. It also made me question why I would choose to struggle or feel stuck. Well, without the struggle I wouldn’t have learned what I did. I also learned that I had old belief systems that held me back from having what I desired. I had to let go of believing I wasn’t worthy of having the desires of my heart. With this knowledge I also had to accept that every single person has choice as well and that I wasn’t always going to like their choices. It created this space where I had to learn to respect more and judge less. I have to consciously make the choice not to judge and to be in allowance of others and their choices. What they choose is not a reflection of me, it is about them and their beliefs. Are your choices creating more for you or are they limiting your life and living??
Before making a big decision I try to get a sense of what the choice will create for me and if it will create more or less for me in the future. Sometimes it’s a gut feeling, sometimes it’s blind faith. Sometimes I choose and then choose again. If you are anything like I was, you might feel like once a choice has been made you have to live with it at least until you suffered long enough. (haha) I am here to tell you that this is not the case. No matter how much money, time, thought, people are invested in the choice You can ALWAYS choose again! It is beliefs and obligation and other peoples judgements that try to tell us otherwise. I hope the choice to share this new way of making decisions and creating your life offers you a sense of peace like it did for me.
Have fun choosing!!
